INTRODUCTION
Many people in affection and Marriage relationship are in a serious debt today and do not know the way out of it. Sadly enough, it is a serious burden that some couples, even Christian couples or families are facing today especially in this time of global Economic Melt-down and as a result they are weighed down, confused, worry, frustrated and even so ashamed of themselves. As couples in Affection and Marriage relationship. It is the will of God for you to live a debt-free life; and I mean God wants you to live a life that is debt free. Consequently, it is not the will of God for you to live and also die as a debtor. And of course I doubt it if any debtor will enter into Heaven. But no hassles! Because there is solution to this horrible situation and that is why I am here to place the solution into your hands by sharing with you the secrets and Godly principles that can help you to live a life that is free from debt. Are you ready?
PROBLEM THAT IS ASSOCIATED WITH DEBT IN AFFECTION AND MARRIAGE RELATIONSHIP
When anyone in affection and marriage relationship is debt, is apparently becomes an obligation that such ones must settle the debt. And obviously it is very much get indebted than to pay what is own back. Debt as a matter of fact becomes a source of worry and concern. It also influences ones life negatively and most time, the so called creditors tends to dictate how you to run your affairs as a debtor. Meaning that the borrowers are servants to their lenders. Read more on this in book of Prov. 22:7. Debt also bring shame, it make one a bankrupt especially when the debt is so huge that property must be sold to meet some obligations. In such a situation mentioned above, it affects one personal life and ones relationship. It has also render some people paralyzed in their body, brain, legs and arms, and some have even died as a result of debt owed.
Moreover, debt as so become a very big problem that many in affection and marriage relationship do not know how to get out of it. Some couple makes the decision to commit suicide; some decide to run away while relatives and friends have decided to forsake some. In this light I conclude that debt is not good, and please couples do not make debt a way of life because it is very much better to stay away from debt especially when it is can be avoided.
CAUSES OF DEBT IN AFFECTION AND MARRIAGE RELATIONSHIP
There are so many reasons couples in affection and marriage relationship develop the habit of borrowing which later leads to debt. For example, some spouse because of the bad habits like, gambling, drunkenness, addiction to drugs, sexual thrilling, like patronizing prostitutes and maintaining concubines while some couples love to spend their so called good time in eateries, live in fabulous hotel, spend their vacations/leave in big and lovely places of the world, and some couples are very much concern about the latest cars, technology and fashions, when it so clear to them that they can not afford all these things. In other word some couple when borrowed find it difficult to pay back not because they do not have the resources but rather it has become their habit or culture not to pay back. But the Bible called such one wicked person, so if you are such a couple please repent now and deceased from such evil act Proverbs 21:17, 2Timothy 3:4 and Psalm 37:21.
SOME OTHER THINGS THAT LEAD TO DEBT IN AFFECTION AND MARRIAGE RELATIONSHIP
Some other things to debt in affection and marriage relationship are lack of wisdom and discretion in handling the affairs of their lives. Some couples sincerely lack wisdom in handling their finances and they are so much careless in the way they conduct their lives. Some spend much more than their earnings and some when they are promoted or get better jobs then they begins to have problems, why? Because they lack wisdom and discretion, and the Bible says “wisdom is the principal thing; so get wisdom… (Proverbs 4:7). Some couples spend money for some unnecessary parties and the so called projects, while others have had opportunities in life but they wasted them because they lack wisdom and discretion. The Bible says “of what use is money in the hands of a fool, since he or she has no desire to get wisdom” Proverbs 17:16. Many in affection and marriage relationship decide to ignore God’s injunction or command in the book of Malachi that says bring your whole tithe… , and I means some couple refuse to bring their tithe to God and as a result they brought God’s curse upon themselves which open the door of indebtedness in their lives.
HOW TO GET OUT OF DEBT IN AFFECTION AND MARRIAGE RELATIONSHIP EXPOSED
There are two major ways to get out of debt:
It is either you pay back the debt you owe or
Debt is written of
It is possible that the couples who are able to pay back get a better job, worker harder or conducted their affairs of their estate wisely or some person decides to help them by paying the bills and debt for them as an act of God’s mercy. Do you know that the later is what God did for you and me through His dear begotten son Jesus Christ Whom He sent to die for you and I on the cross of Calvary. Jesus paid the debt once and for all, Jesus did not owe and so to get out of debt as couples the first thing to do is to absolutely trust God for your finances, meaning that you are to depend on God to live above debt. (Read Psalm 125:1); get this straight away, if any in affection and marriage relationship start to worry about their financial problems it means that such couples trust in selves and own ability. It also means that such couple trusts in economy of their nation or the world. God warns in the Holy Bible to keep our lives free from the love of money also to be contend with what we have. He also assured us by telling you and I He will never leave you and never forsake you. The Lord is my helper, I will not be afraid. God the Almighty your creator, the owner and the initiator of affection and marriage is able to handle any kind of debt in your lives when you invite him into your life and marriage relationship and as well hand it over to Him. For God to help you it is a must for you to be faithful in paying your tithe, you must honor the Lord God as the source of your live and wealth (Proverbs 3:9-10). Couples also need to be patient and follow God’s way in dealing with their finances; for those who hasty or desperate to be rich fall into mischief. But he that gather money little by little makes it grow (proverbs 13:11). Be mindful not to venture into lottery and pools, getting credits from other person to put in high risk business, also you must be careful of get rich quick syndrome. Get this straight away; from my experience, being hasty or being rush never get a couple or couples out of trouble but instead it will get you into more trouble very fast. For any in affection and marriage relationship to get out of dept, you must work very hard; you must keep a very steady income, make progress little by little and absolutely trust God for the strength. Secondly: for any one in affection and marriage to get out of dept, it is a must for you to come up with a specific plan and a budget. For this will help you to move ahead on the basics of careful planning, not careless impulse. For if you plan carefully, it is a must that you will have plenty, and consequently, if you act too quickly you will never have enough. You should follow the budget as much as possible except when it is better to do otherwise. Following the above recommendations will help you to keep careful track of spending and you will be able to see the areas that is necessary to cut off the wastages. It will also help you to have a good payment plan that will result stress less payback. More so budgeting will also help you to save money so as to meet on expected expenses. Remember, money is a tool that God want you to use wisely but your ultimate love and affection must be for God, your creator and not money the unrighteous Marmon. My Conclusion for you: please never go into dept unnecessarily, when you find your selves in dept by situation that is beyond your control, God has a way of escape for you in his wisdom. Remember, it is not God will for any couple to be a perpetual debtor. I pray for you that God will help to live a dept free life in Jesus name, and you shall become lender to other in the mighty Name of Jesus Christ. SHALOM!
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