Understanding how your husband is hard wired is very important for the health of your marriage. When your husband ignores you, it is probably not because of the 5 pounds you put on since you were married 5 years ago. You need to understand that most men are not able to multitask like women, so if he is ignoring you, he is more than likely concentrating a larger project.
Right now, the project that your husband is working on is his world. Most men don't dabble in their projects, once it is set in their mind that they are going to do something, they really have at it. All of their efforts are put into completing their project or becoming the best at something; what you need to do is teach your husband to set boundaries between their projects and your marriage.
How are you going to do this? You're not going to nag and demand that he spend time with you because you're sick of your husband ignoring you. You're going to spend some time with him working on his latest project or quest to be the best. In other words you're going to do some "male bonding".
Spending time bonding with your husband in his quest to become the best will allow him to see you as a friend and not an enemy. You will no longer be the obstacle getting in the way of his success and he will be more willing to spend time with you the next time you want to go shopping or scrapbook your latest family vacation.
Bonding with your man will allow the two of you to spend some quality time together like you used to and it's possible that you may find a hobby from the time you are spending with your husband.
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